i don’t post stuff like this, i just don’t. i have my reasons, and you can ask if you really care to know.
[ but this isn’t that. ]
what i do want is to celebrate my best friend. you can call us boyfriend and girlfriend, you can say we’re dating, you can say we’re “diggin’ each other’s chili”, you can say whatever you like..
and you won’t find me denying it, it’s all true some way or another. i just personally do not believe in some social media standard to prove or officialize my relationships.
regardless // this girl has been through so much with me. that is what makes us who we are. today doesn’t mark some secretly special day or expected anniversary, and i’m not presently overwhelmed with some fleeting butterfly emotion, or passionately prompted to post this because of some gift or loving gesture i recently received from her that calls for a public response via the internet, but more of a realization that y’all are missing out on a huge part of my life if you don’t realize how awesome she is, and who she is to me.
she is // kind, loving, joyful, humble, selfless, appreciative, relationally aware, quick to care, immediately friendly, unexpectantly giving, full of adventure, constantly growing and seeking truth, stubborn, aware of her stubbornness, appropriately apologetic, sometimes clumsy, occasionally a mess, never boring, unendingly light-hearted, a perfect mixture of dependence and self-sufficiency, full of questions, full of answers, full of love, grace, and patience for me and the rest of the world, and maybe even a bit magical.. she’s also super athletic and a beauty to look at. but those are just bonuses, and it doesn’t end there.
chandler brooks clark is such a blessing to my life that i couldn’t NOT share how much she means to me. 98% of the internet doesn’t even know what a “blessing” is.. well i do. i’m sure this post will get at least a few ‘precious’ comments, and i’ll love that! but that isn’t the real purpose. not for me. i couldn’t care less what people on the internet think about my personal relationships, but chandler is a special one of many important relationships in my life and i just thought i’d let you all know how grand she is. // (at Together)